1L Lessons Learned


Just like that, my 1L year has come to a close. It’s hard to believe that a year ago I had no idea what I was getting myself into, and if I tried to go back and tell myself what I know now, I don’t think even I would believe me…


Aside from the copious amount of law that I’ve learned over the past nine months, I’ve learned an insane amount about resilience and who I am.

Here are three of the biggest lessons that I’ve learned from being a 1L.

  1. You’re Never Alone

The first year of law school is weird because it is one of the very few times where you’re truly not going through this alone. No matter how much more prepared you believe other people to be, they’re not. Every 1L is in the same boat trying to figure out what’s going on. I can’t count on two hands the amount I’ve times that I’ve thought to myself, “I feel like I’m the only one who feels [insert a multitude of synonyms for frustrated here],” only to express it to friends and hear a resounding “SAME!”

2. It’s Okay to Feel Guilty… If It Means You’re Taking Care of Yourself

Stress is easy. Finding and taking the time to take care of yourself is a lot harder. So when you’re drowning in reading and studying it can be hard to try and process going to work out or even take a walk. You start thinking, “Okay, it will take me 10 minutes to go to the gym, 45 minutes to work out, 10 minutes in the sauna, and 10 minutes to drive home again.” Or I could just stay home and read/prepare for tomorrow. Usually, staying home to read/prepare wins out (even when it turns into telling myself that I’ll read in the morning and watch Netflix now). TAKE THE TIME. If there’s one thing that I regret about this year, it’s that I didn’t take better care of myself by working out more to relieve stress.

It’s not worth feeling guilty over something that will make you feel better in the end.

3. It’s Not A Solo Effort (Say Thank You)

No matter how much it feels like it, I could not have done this year of law school completely on my own. I may have put in the effort reading, writing, and taking exams, but I would not have survived without the other people in my life. Thank you to Spencer for being willing to pick up my slack in cooking and cleaning when I felt like I never had the time to contribute. Thank you to my Gal Pals who were always there to get our nails done or get coffee when everything got too crazy.  Thank you to the ones who have gone through this before who have talked me out of going crazy every step of the way.  Thank you to the friends who were always a text away when I would go into hiding to try and escape the craziness. But most of all, thank you to my family (and Spencer’s) who have supported me through every step of this crazy journey. I’m so lucky to have had the support system that I had, and I would not be where I am today with the joint effort of EVERYONE around me, so THANK YOU.




Tuesday Pick-Me-Up Tunes

Happy Tuesday, friends!

If you need a little something to get you through the week, here’s what I’m listening to today!

Just remember that you’re almost halfway through the week!

Keep breathing & keep loving.

xo Megan

My 2014 In Review

Hi friends. It’s that time of year where everyone is talking about the best of the best of 2014, and I’m here to share my favorites with y’all.

(Please note that in the book categories, not all were published this year, however they were read by me for the first time this year.)


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For me, 2014 may just be the year that I fell in love with pop music all over again. I found when I was listening to these albums I connected with the honesty and authenticity these three put into their records. At one point or another all three of the albums were on repeat, and still will be heading into 2015.

Listen to: Clean from 1989. Thinking Out Loud from X. Shadow from Strange Desire.

Books I Read (Fiction)

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This summer, my bookworm ways took over once again, and since May, I’ve read over 60 books. These three have stuck in my brain since I read them. Why We Broke Up is heartbreaking and beautifully written. I loved Adam’s POV in Where She Went, and I found myself loving it a lot more than I did If I Stay. Finally, The Night Circus created a world that I wanted to live in. Erin Morgenstern created a breathtaking setting and story that immerses you in a visual journey using only words.

Books I Read (Non-Fiction)

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It will come as no surprise to the people that know me that I love strong women, and there are wonderful tales to be told by these women. I love Tina’s humor, Malala’s courage, and Lena’s rawness. All three are incredible, and I loved getting the chance to see inside their brains for approximately 300 pages each.

Book Series



I read two trilogies this year that have easily become two of my favorites that I’ve ever read. The Anna trilogy was cute, fluffy, and surprisingly realistic for being about teens who go to boarding school in Paris or have Olympians for siblings. I knew that no matter what, I could find happiness in these pages. As for the Grisha trilogy, I was blown away by the originality of the story. YA is a genre that can be fairly repetitive, but I never felt that way (except for possibly the love triangle) while reading it. Once again, a beautiful tale and a wonderful fantasy world.


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I didn’t go see many movies this year, but these top my list. They made me laugh, cry (read: sob like a baby), and even go WTF despite knowing exactly what was going to happen.

New Shows

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Shonda Rimes is no stranger to hit TV shows, and How To Get Away With Murder was no different. Thursday nights were packed with some of my favorite shows, and this very quickly climbed my list of pilots that I actually wanted to stick with throughout the season. As for Outlander, I didn’t watch it when it first aired but rather binged the whole first season (only 8 episodes) just the other day once I finished the book. This series so far is spectacularly done, and I love the artistic liberties they’ve taken to add new dimensions to the show. I also am completely in love with Jamie Fraser more than I was when I read the book (and that’s a lot).

Travel Experiences

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This year brought with it warm California escapades, fall fun with family in North Carolina, and a relaxing Thanksgiving in Chicago. I’ve been so blessed to go on wonderful adventures and be surrounded by great people.

Live Shows

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I had the opportunity to see two legends and one of my favorite musicians over the course of 2014. Seeing Sir Paul McCartney and Bruce Springsteen live were unforgettable. Seeing huge crowds of varying decades reminded me just how powerful music is, and reminded me once again of why I’m pursuing a career in this industry. As for the Bleachers’ show, it was amazing to watch Jack take control of the crowd and the stage. I’ve seen him 3 times before with Fun., but he was in a completely different element this time. It was wonderful.

Thank you to everyone who has been part of 2014, and here’s to the greatness that 2015 is bound to bring!

xo Megan

The Liebster


I’ve been nominated by lovely friend Shaylei for the Liebster award which is to given to bloggers by other bloggers in order to connect blogs and create more of a community feel!

The rules are simple:

1. Link back to the blogger who nominated you.

2. Answer the 11 questions given to you by the blogger who nominated you.

3. Nominate 11 other bloggers with less than 200 followers. (I’m bending this one)

4. Go to the blogs you nominated and notify them of your nomination.

5. Give your nominees 11 questions to answer.

Here are the questions that Shaylei has given me to answer.

  1. What is your go-to stress relief? When I’ve had a particularly stressful day I tend to make a cup of tea and either curl up in bed with a book or Netflix. I find it’s easier to deal with fictional worlds sometimes, even though that’s probably not always the healthiest choice.
  2. What song has been stuck in your head lately? I’ve been singing “Blank Space” for weeks now, and I’m still not sick of it.
  3. Who is your biggest influence? My biggest influence is my parents. Over the years they’ve instilled wonderful values and a work ethic in me that will stay with me forever. They are the hardest working people I know, but they also work hard to help others in any way that they can. They are wonderful human beings, and I wouldn’t be the person that I am today if it weren’t for them.
  4. Where would you like to see yourself in 5 years? In five years, I would love to still be living in Nashville. I’m hoping that I’ll be working as a business manager or something of the sort in the music industry. Perhaps at that point, I’ll be thinking about getting engaged/married, but definitely not kids yet.
  5. Share a goal you’d like to attain in the next year: I want to reconnect myself with discovering new music because I’ve slipped away from that.
  6. What’s the first thing you do when you get up in the morning? The last thing before you go to bed? Sadly, I’ve fallen into the habit of checking my phone right before I fall asleep and as soon as I wake up in the morning.
  7. What’s your favorite thing about yourself? My kind spirit. I work my best to not give people a reason to dislike me, and I work to treat everyone I meet with kindness and respect.
  8. When did you start blogging and why? I created this blog about a year ago, although I don’t post very consistently. I wanted a space where I could post longer thoughts than Tumblr while also trying to find share my interests with friends and family.
  9. Share your must-have beauty product: This year I discovered Maybeline’s BB Cream, and I absolutely adore it.
  10. Finish this sentence: “My favorite place I’ve ever visited is…” Disneyland. I have so many different memories and all of them (except for the time I puked in the middle of the park) are magical.
  11. What’s your favorite animal and why? I love pandas because I think that they’re adorable. (If you’ve been living under a rock and haven’t watched the panda sneeze video or seen pandas on a slide, go watch. NOW.) I’m also jealous of their ability to do not much more than eat and sleep all day.

I’m now going to nominate Harrison and Paige in hopes they know more bloggers than I do to forward it on to!

Here are my questions for you:

  1. What book has left a lasting impression on you?
  2. Share a goal you have for yourself for the next year.
  3. Without any limitations, if you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?
  4. What is your favorite quote to live by?
  5. Share your top song of 2014.
  6. When did you start blogging and why?
  7. What do you always carry with you?
  8. If you could change the ending to any fictional work (movie, show, book, etc.) what would you change?
  9. Who’s your biggest influence?
  10. What’s the biggest change you’ve seen in yourself in the past year?
  11. Share your favorite holiday tradition.

Have fun!

A Journey of Music Discovery

I remember when I used to spend hours each day listening to new bands and discovering new music. I could probably credit that to not having much else to do in my small hometown. I also remember being the person my friends came to when looking for new music, but when approached last week, I barely had an answer to give.

Lately, in spite of living in a city filled to the brim with new music, I’ve been listening to the same couple of albums on repeat. While I absolutely adore those albums (1989 and Strange Desire if you were wondering), I know that I need to get myself back into the habit of searching and finding great new music.

I’ve decided to challenge myself to find at least one if not more new artist a week without any genre limits. I’ll be compiling my musical discoveries into a Spotify playlist (found below) as well as provide insights every once in a while here on Megan Rambles.

If anyone reading this has any suggestions of artists to check out, feel free to send them my way!

xo Megan


My love for books truly began when I learned to read. One of my neighbors always used to tells that soon after I learned to read, I was probably around 4 or 5 at the time, I ran straight over to his porch and read him a book. Whenever I used to see him, he would always bring that up, and while I don’t remember the initial memory, I love the story.

I remember attempting to read a falling apart and fading green book about sugar plum fairies which once belonged to my mother. I remember accidentally taking a book from my doctor’s office and thought I was going to be in tremendous trouble. I remember scouring book order forms trying to decide the perfect book to read next.

One of my most vivid book related memories, however, has always been the first time I ever picked up a Harry Potter book. While I can’t remember my exact age, I was probably in 2nd grade when I got my hands on a copy of Harry Potter & The Goblet Of Fire. I remember sitting on the couch with what seemed like the biggest book ever on my lap and began reading the first chapter. I was a little confused about the characters, but I asked my older sister of I had to read the books in order. She told me that it didn’t really matter, but it still didn’t feel right to start on book four. Later that week, I started the series from the beginning, and Harry Potter went from a fictional world to a very real place in my heart.

One of the reasons the series was so important to me was because for the first time I found something I could relate to. No matter how many friends I had, I was still a bit of a nerd: book-loving, smart, and a goody two shoes. Through Hermione, JK Rowling taught me that those are great qualities to have. With Hermione in my mind, I never once felt like I had to be anything but myself.

The series also meant so much to me because of the connection it brought my sister and I. With a six and a half year age gap, it’s not always easy to find common ground, but we found a large part of ours in Harry Potter. At first, I was just lucky that she let little kid me borrow her copies of the first four books. The last three books we each got our own copies of because we had to read them the day they came out. We couldn’t be bothered with waiting for the other one to finish. We saw all the movies together in theaters (at midnight starting with the fourth one) even if we were living in different states.

Watching the series end three year ago was hard to bear because it felt like I was being forced to grow up, but I know that those seven books will stay in my heart for the rest of my life. I can’t wait to pass them down to my future children in the hopes that they too find solace and joy in them.

While there’s no more Harry Potter besides the new short story update (at least right now), I’ve found myself back into my bookworm ways that I haven’t indulged in years. I’ve read 31 books so far this summer, and I remember why I love to read in the first place. I feel as if I’ve gone on incredible adventures to distant lands and places much closer to home, when in reality, I haven’t left the sleepy town of Franklin in two months. I crave the excitement of starting a new book and learning about a diverse array of characters. I feel as though a piece of myself that was lost before has been found again.


A Lesson In Creativity


In my entrepreneurship class last semester we spent almost an entire class period defining and discussing how to inspire creativity. One outlet I don’t think a single person thought of was working at an ice cream shop. Truthfully, I’ve never been more inspired than I have been while working here this summer.

Someone once told me to take something away from everyone you meet because you never know what they’ll teach you about life. Many people I’ve encountered lately have added a spark of creativity to my life.

As of late, I’ve been observing others closer; noticing their actions and listening to their stories. I’ve met some interesting characters recently, and their collective strangeness has added up to a slightly odd summer that has been budding new ideas in my head. In a way it’s inspired me to want to become a good story teller in a way that makes my good story award superlative true and not ironic. Of all the people I’ve encountered in the past couple of months, I think the children are the best place to turn to for creative inspiration. From the stories they tell to their innocent ideas of the world, they bring a new perspective that those of is who have begun losing our creative edge can be renewed. They also tend to keep me on my toes with their requests for dinosaur faces and (edible) hair on their ice cream cones.

The bottom line, no matter where you are and where you go, remember to look around you and be inspired. I never expected a quiet summer in a small town to affect my thinking as much as it has lately. It doesn’t take much if you simply open your mind to everything around you.